Integrity and Values: The Unshakeable Foundation for Your Career, Business, and Personal Growth
- Samisa Abeysinghe
- Aug 7
- 4 min read
In today's world, when we talk about success, many people think about talent, strategy, or connections. However, it's clear to me, there is something deeper and more fundamental than all of that. It's integrity. It’s about doing the right thing, even when no one is watching. This is the unshakeable foundation that is essential for your business, career, and personal growth.

The Butcher's Story: Two Chickens, One Lesson
It was a busy day at the butcher shop, and the butcher felt quite proud. He had served many customers and had only one chicken left in the store. As the last customer approached the counter, he smiled, knowing it had been a good day. The woman politely asked for a chicken, and the butcher, eager to make his final sale, quickly placed the last one on the scale.
“That will be Rs. 1,235,” he said confidently.
The woman, however, wasn’t delighted. She looked at the chicken and said, “That’s a good price, but it is too small. Don’t you have anything larger?”
The butcher hesitated for a moment. There was no larger chicken—this was his last one. But rather than admitting this, he thought quickly. He decided to try a trick. With a slight pause, he picked up the same chicken, placed it back in the refrigerator, and then took it out again as if it were a different one. He weighed the same chicken again, pretending it was larger.
“This one will be Rs. 1,385,” he said faintly, hoping the customer wouldn’t notice.
The woman didn’t respond immediately. She seemed to be considering her options, and the butcher felt relieved. Maybe his plan had worked, and he could make the sale without issues.
Suddenly, the woman smiled and said, “You know what? I’ll take both of them!”
The butcher froze. He had been caught in his own lie. There was only one chicken, and now he had no way to deliver on the promise of a second, larger bird. His plan had backfired, and the customer had seen through his dishonesty. In an instant, the butcher realized the mistake he had made. Instead of being honest, he had tried to deceive the customer for the sake of a quick sale, and now he was facing the consequences.
Lessons Learned: The Importance of Integrity
This seemingly simple story of the butcher and the customer teaches us a powerful lesson about the importance of integrity and values in both business and life. The butcher’s quick decision to deceive the customer may have seemed harmless at the moment, but it revealed a deeper issue—his willingness to sacrifice honesty for personal gain.
1. Honesty is Always the Best Policy
The butcher’s first mistake was thinking that a small lie would go unnoticed. In reality, honesty is the foundation of trust in any personal or professional relationship. Had the butcher been truthful about the chicken being the last one, the customer may have still bought it, knowing she was dealing with an honest businessman. Being honest, even when it seems difficult or inconvenient, builds trust. In business, customers appreciate transparency, and it encourages them to return. Honesty strengthens relationships and ensures that people can rely on us in any situation.
2. Quick Fixes Can Lead to Bigger Problems
The butcher’s decision to deceive the customer was a quick fix to a problem he didn’t want to address. He thought that a simple trick would get him through the situation, but ultimately, it created an even bigger problem. The customer asked for two chickens, exposing the butcher’s lie. In life, quick fixes and shortcuts may seem like a way to avoid immediate discomfort, but they often lead to larger consequences later on. Whether in business or personal relationships, it is always better to take the time to address issues honestly and thoughtfully.
3. Integrity is a Long-Term Investment
The butcher’s deception might have won him a small, short-term gain if the customer hadn’t caught on. But even if the lie had worked, it would have damaged his reputation in the long run. Once people lose trust in someone’s integrity, it isn’t easy to earn it back. Integrity is like a long-term investment. It may not always bring immediate rewards, but it builds a solid reputation over time, earns trust, and creates lasting success. In contrast, dishonesty can lead to short-term gains but ultimately results in loss—loss of trust, relationships, and opportunities.
The Importance of Integrity for Career, Business, and Personal Growth
This story makes it clear that integrity is not just a moral concept. It is a fundamental requirement for your career, business, and personal growth.
In your career: Integrity builds your professional reputation. If colleagues, managers, and clients trust you, you will be given more responsibility and more opportunities. A lie or a dishonest act might bring an immediate advantage, but when exposed, it can destroy your career. Integrity, combined with hard work and dedication, leads to lasting professional success.
In business: For a business, integrity is the backbone of customer loyalty and brand trust. As in the butcher’s story, customers recognize dishonesty. A dishonest business might see short-term profits, but in the long run, it loses customer trust, reputation, and market share. Honesty, transparency, and ethical practices build a strong customer base, trusted partnerships, and sustainable growth.
For personal growth: Integrity is the foundation of self-respect and peace of mind. When you are true to your values, you can be proud of your decisions. This gives you inner strength. Dishonesty, on the other hand, creates stress, fear, and regret. Living with integrity allows you to build genuine relationships and move forward without regret for past actions.
Conclusion: Our Values Shape Our Actions
The butcher’s story reminds us of the importance of staying true to our values, especially in moments of temptation. It's easy to compromise integrity when faced with a challenge or an opportunity for a quick gain. But the consequences of those decisions can be long-lasting.
In life and business, honesty, transparency, and integrity are critical. They build the foundation for trust, respect, and success. The butcher’s experience teaches us that when we stray from our values, we risk losing the trust of others and miss out on the opportunity to grow and succeed meaningfully. In every situation, ask yourself: "Am I acting with integrity? Am I staying true to my values?" The answers to these questions will guide you toward making decisions that bring success and ensure you can stand by them with pride.




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